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Practical daily-living skills: strengthening independence in everyday life

Who is it for? For people on the autism spectrum, parents, relatives and professionals who want to strengthen independence in everyday life (for example dressing, personal hygiene, eating, housekeeping) in a targeted way.

In brief

Practical daily-living skills (in technical language "adaptive behaviour") are the abilities needed in everyday life, for example dressing, looking after oneself, eating, shopping, organising appointments. The 2021 guideline stated that about half of the children and adolescents with autism without intellectual disability have marked difficulties in daily-living skills that contrast with their level of intelligence. [2, Rec. 49] It recommended always including this area in the overall plan, first systematically recording the difficulties and deriving targeted practice steps from them. [2, Rec. 49, 52] "Independent" here means what is feasible for the person in everyday life; maximum independence should stay in view in any support. [2, Rec. 1]

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Status of the guideline: This article uses the S3 guideline on therapy (2021). It expired on 23.03.2026. [1] The statements are not automatically wrong, but they are not backed by a valid guideline. The editorial team has not evaluated studies after 2021 here.

Why daily-living skills are a topic of their own

In people with autism, intelligence and daily-living skills do not automatically go hand in hand. The guideline stated that skills in this area are strongly linked with a positive developmental course and are of particular importance in adulthood because of self-care. [2, Rec. 49, 52] Among the reasons, it named that many of those affected first need a longer period to build a relationship with therapists and find it harder to transfer what they have learned to other situations (reduced generalisation and flexibility). [2, Rec. 47] More on structure in everyday life: Routines, structure and predictability in everyday life.

  • Toddlers and preschool children: Daily-living skills should be agreed as goals with the parents within comprehensive early intervention programmes and trained with practice-based, behaviour-therapy-grounded methods; parents and educators should be guided. Practice should continue until the child masters the skill in different situations. [2, Rec. 44] If aggressive, hyperactive or oppositional behaviour makes practice harder, it recommended a targeted parent training first or in parallel. [2, Rec. 45]
  • Primary school children without intellectual disability: a manualised individual therapy, limited to about ten sessions, on emotion regulation with daily-living exercises and homework, involving parents and teachers (grade of recommendation B, majority agreement). [2, Rec. 46]
  • Adults without intellectual disability: a group therapy limited to about 20 sessions (weekly, 90 minutes) on stress and anxiety, self-organisation and adaptive and social skills, with homework (grade of recommendation B). [2, Rec. 50] Further approaches had rarely been studied in randomised trials. [2, Rec. 51]
  • With intellectual disability (primary school age to adults): individualised, highly structured, practical exercises in everyday life by parents, carers, integration assistants, special-needs teachers or staff of residential groups and workshops, building on existing skills and with natural reinforcement, preferably in small groups; goals named were independent dressing, personal hygiene, eating, housework, working in a workshop, hobbies and meaningful leisure activity. Visual plans and behaviour-therapy methods should be combined; if there are problems with implementation, a behavioural analysis according to the SORKC model should be carried out. [2, Rec. 53]

For school children without intellectual disability, the guideline advised against computer-based training of working memory or cognitive flexibility to improve daily-living skills (grade of recommendation A), and likewise against horse-riding therapy for this purpose. [2, Rec. 48, 56] On medication, it stated that no psychotropic medicines and no substances for “neuroenhancement” should be used to promote practical daily-living skills (grade of recommendation A). [2, Rec. 54] More on medication: Medication in autism: possibilities and limits.

What can help you in everyday life

The following points are suggestions from the editorial team that follow the guideline; they do not replace an individual assessment:

  • One skill at a time: First record what already works well and where it gets stuck, then choose one small step. [2, Rec. 49, 52]
  • Practise in real everyday life, not only in therapy, because transfer is often hard. [2, Rec. 47]
  • Visible aids such as picture cards or action sequences as a plan: Structuring and visualisation in practice.
  • Suitable demands: Avoid over- and under-demand. [2, Rec. 3]
  • Have a say yourself: Goals should be set together with the person. [2, Rec. 1]

What do we know – what is still open?

Study-based (individual randomised trials, limited): Short, manualised programmes on emotion regulation (primary school age) and on stress, self-organisation and social skills (adults) each had indications of benefit in one study (evidence level 2 to 3). [2, Rec. 46, 50]

Consensus-based (expert opinion): Record daily-living skills systematically, practise in everyday life, reinforce naturally, support visually. [2, Rec. 47, 49, 52, 53]

Open:

  • Which forms of practice strengthen independence best in the long term has hardly been studied in the studies evaluated.
  • How progress in everyday life can be reliably measured remains unclear.
  • The editorial team has not evaluated studies after 2021.

Note: This article offers general information. It does not replace personal advice or treatment by professionals.

Sources and literature

  1. DGKJP. Aktuelle Leitlinien (Einträge 028-018 „Gültig bis 04.04.2021“ und 028-047 „Gültig bis 23.03.2026“). https://www.dgkjp.de/wissen/aktuelle-leitlinien/ – Professional society (website in German)
  2. DGKJP, DGPPN et al. Autismus-Spektrum-Störungen im Kindes-, Jugend- und Erwachsenenalter. Teil 2: Therapie. S3-Leitlinie, AWMF-Reg.-Nr. 028-047, Stand Text 02.05.2021. – Guideline (in German); expired on 23 March 2026

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